Mother's Day Post!!!!!!

It's a pretty well known fact that I am very close to my Mum, and when people ask me about that, when they wonder how I can be so close and love my Mum so much, I generally remind them that my Mum is actually just a great mother, an idea that many of people cant relate. It's pretty sad to think that not everyone's Mum is as good as a mother as my Mum, and I'm not talking "Love", most people can say that their Mom "loves" them, my Mum is actually a wonderful mother which believe it or not, is a very important aspect of our relationship. People brag all the time about how much their mother loves them but I am lucky enough to know that my mother also gives a crap about my life. Motherly love can be a shallow and empty thing but my Mum proves to me every day that she is genuinely a great mother who always puts me first.

It's always an entertaining story to talk about in my household for everyone to retell just how attached I was to my Mum when I was a baby. And it's funny because of how easily it can be compared to my relationship with her now. Maybe I don't stay with her all the time and cry when I have to leave but I certainly do put a lot of weight on always trying to remind my Mum that I love her. That's actually something that worries me a lot, I never like to drop off the map because even though I reminded my Mum that I loved her before I left, it's a priority of mine to keep reminding her until I get home safe. I worry a lot that my Mum doesn't understand how much I love her and how much I appreciate her, so, even though I fail a lot, I try to do as much as I can to remind her that she's always my favorite person and I wouldn't ever want a different mother.

I always like to compare my relationship with my Mum to Eve and Alex from The Mummy movies. That may seem a bit silly but It's actually quite accurate, I believe. First of all, Both my Mum and Eve seem to always be in control of the situation. There's been many times in my life when I thought that everything was horrible and out of control only to once again realize that my Mum had it handled the entire time and I was panicking over nothing. Secondly, Both of them are natural leaders who don't usually seem like they need any help getting what they need out of people. Also, of course, they're both incredible mothers and even though I've never been kidnapped by a crazed mummy version of Arnold Vosloo, I have no doubt my Mum would do the exact same thing to get me home safe. Lastly, based on the third movie, my relationship with my Mum is very similar to her's and Alex's relationship in "Tomb of the Dragon Emperor". I'm not always a lot like my Mum but I certainly crave her approval and am in a constant state of trying to make her proud. There is no one in this world whose opinion is more important to me than my Mum's.

I sincerely hope that my Mum liked what I could give her for Mother's day because I know that she deserves so much more and again, not because she loves me but because she just happens to be a wonderful mother. My Mum is the most important person in the world to me and I hope, as she's reading this, she understands that my opinion and love for her has not changed since I was a baby. I still need her and I still appreciate everything that she has done for me throughout my life. I still look up to my Mum and crave her attention the same way I did whenever I was a toddler most likely because I still see her as my hero, My Mama who always knows what to do.

I'm sorry if I made anyone jealous with this post, it's sad that not everyone can have a good a mother as I do but I suppose I must have just done something right in a past life to get mine. I don't encourage anyone to blindly love their mother since, from what I've seen, a lot of mothers suck So you can believe me when I say that nothing that I have posted here has been empty or exaggerated. I just have that  good of a Mum. I am a very lucky person to have a mother as caring and as hard working as mine and I hope that she always knows that because as hard as I try to remind her as much as possible, I still worry that she doesn't always know how much I love her and appreciate her.

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, MAMA!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!